Our greatest challenges and opportunities reside in the deep. I can help you explore that unknown space.
As your personal advisor I guide you through a process with specific goals over a time frame that you and I agree to. Our journey is unlike other methods of self-discovery, like coaching or counseling, which tend to be episodic, tepid and without resolution.
MY PRACTICE is to help you attain completeness in all aspects of life. MY GOAL is to create a substantial shift in how you perceive, live and affect those closest to you – in love, family and work. TOGETHER we create pathways of new meaning, new language, and new conversations with possibilities that heretofore seemed impossible.
Our objective is to realize a life bigger than where you have been.
One day my life will be better, … get fixed, I will have arrived at…, my spouse will …, my work will …, my children will …, others will …
Is this success?
OUR SUCCESS depends upon your commitment to be open, honest and willing. Though what we do is confidential, and I am trained as a coach, I do not necessarily abide by coaching standards designed to protect your comfort zone. I am here to bring resolution and scrape the muck out of your life.
CAVEAT: I am often asked to address (‘fix’) the ability of an entity (employees, partners, customers, donors, friends, family) to create deeper relationships in an effort to augment capacity so others see things ‘your’ way (depth, connectivity). Bridging this gap requires moving from that safe/protected zone where you and most everybody else compete/reside (live, exist) to the scary spiritual place as our ‘whole’ selves so others see and us better. Logic compels that such a shift is bewildering, even uncomfortable. Salient change begins at the top. YET, most leaders lack the courage required. I see this constantly. And it’s too bad because this space is where leadership at all levels takes hold, life changes and new beginnings are discovered. WHERE ARE YOU?
MY PURPOSE is helping others live consciously in order to find the new beginnings.
MY METHODOLOGY combines emotional and conversational intelligence, rigorous dialogue, character-alignment and peer-exchange (when possible) to reveal gaps and provide feedback toward creating breakthroughs to attain a profound shift.
NOTE: I act in an advisory role and not always within the constraints of a coach or ‘life-coach’.
MY INSPIRATION is our second oldest daughter Martha who passed away suddenly and unexpectedly in her sleep from natural causes. She was 23. Though quiet and shy she brought profound spiritual and emotional impact into the lives of hundreds. Despite her inherent shyness she was courageous, though I don’t think she knew that. As for me, I was too busy ‘being’ a parent. Lost in illusion of what I thought was supposed to be, I failed to exist beyond my own assumptions of myself in Martha’s life in order to embrace the wholeness that Martha had achieved. It was only in the aftermath that I realized Martha had become the most successful person I have ever known. And thus began my journey.